What is New?

WHAT IS NEWEST ON THIS BLOG?
April 6 New Post: Why Scapegoats of Narcissistic Families Are Unlikely To Turn Into Sycophants. Part II.
March 29 New Post: A Domestic Violence Situation and Tale - from a well known Canadian Musician.
March 9 New Post: Why Scapegoats of Narcissistic Families Find It Impossible to Turn Themselves Into Sycophants. Comes with a Discussion on Largely Involuntary Independent Thinking, C-PTSD and Healing.
February 28 New Post: Don't Get Narcissism Mixed Up With Alzheimer's Disease. How Similar Are They? Comes With a Discussion on Brain Science in Narcissistic Families and in Alzheimer's Disease
February 16 New Post: Perspecticide and Being Invalidated Often Feels Unsafe and Even Downright Dangerous On the Receiving End. Comes With a Discussion on Narcissism.
February 2 New Post: Peep's Article on Adult Children and the "No Contact" Trend With Parents in the USA. Is Narcissism Really Behind It?
November 29 New Post: The "Never Enoughness" Attitudes Of Narcissists. Why Narcissists Have So Much Trouble Feeling Gratitude, and Why That Influences Peace.
November 12 New Post: When There is Favoritism of a Child in a Family, It is Usually a Sign There is an Abused Scapegoat Child Too. Comes With a Discussion for Teachers and Mandated Reporting.
PERTINENT POST: ** Hurting or Punishing Others to Teach Them a Lesson - Does it Work?
PETITION: the first petition I have seen of its kind: Protection for Victims of Narcissistic Sociopath Abuse (such as the laws the UK has, and is being proposed for the USA): story here and here or sign the actual petition here
Note: After seeing my images on social media unattributed, I find it necessary to post some rules about sharing my images
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use of my images

I have found a lot of my images from this blog floating around on the internet between Facebook, Twitter, Yahoo, Blogger and Pinterest. I haven't joined Instagram, so I don't know whether they are on there too. But the one thing I ask if you do a save-screen is to leave my copyright in the image because the images can be taken out of context if they do not go with the writing.

Below, I tell you what you can do and not do with my images.

The point of my images is to illustrate my writings.

If I see the image and people are asking questions as to why "this or that" is not part of the image, I can explain. But I have a feeling that I miss most posts just because I am not on the internet that much and because I suspect there are more people sharing my image than I know about.

Not attributing work to an artist is very much about stealing.

I have been stolen from a lot in my life, and to see my hard work up on the internet with no attribution from fellow survivors of abuse is not a good feeling for me. Please, please, please respect the artists.

HERE ARE SOME GROUND RULES FOR COPYING IMAGES FROM THIS SITE

1. Ask for permission in the comment section of the post of the image you would like to share on your social media. Or you can contact me through LilacGroveGraphics(att)gmail.com (naturally the att should be replaced with @). 
2. If you are a fellow survivor, you can use my images in your forums, but use the whole image, not a partial one, and give me credit (aka "artwork by Lise Winne") and list my post where you found the image so that the image won't be taken out of context.
3. Absolutely no publishing, or selling something with my image on it, or selling it on blogs where you or someone else is making money, or in books where you are making money, without my permission, and without a license.

Below is one where someone put in an extra figure (the hero) and a different kind of lettering and type, then highlighted the lettering underneath each character in purple, and put in the words, "Magic Cut" in right hand corner. I didn't do this: this is someone else's work on my image. Don't do this! - this is not your art work to mess with. You will find their unauthrized altered image of mine below, followed the real one of mine afterward.  You can see that my image was altered quite a bit.

HERE IS THE UNAUTHORIZED ALTERED IMAGE OF MY WORK BELOW
 THAT I FOUND ON FACEBOOK 
(again, do not do this):


AND HERE IS MY ORIGINAL IMAGE
it came with this post:




Below is another one I caught, but there have been many others, which is why I finally decided to speak out.

In the one below, I left the comments in, but blurred the names and pictures of the survivors in photoshop. I think comments help survivors not to feel isolated (since isolation is a lot of what perpetrators try to do), and you can see that the comments are very helpful, so the comments aren't the problem. The copying of the artwork without the copyright symbol is the point - this one shows my work without my copyright.

The original is from my post on the Karpman's Triangle and it looks a lot better on my site (not blurry) and the whole piece is featured with my copyright.

note that this one does not have my copyright
don't do this:


And to the Quora author, Barbara Warrum, you can use the image in the way you used it. Thanks for sharing your story too. 



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