Misadventures with Angry Alcoholics, Bullies and Narcissists: cures and musings for the holidays when you have abusers in your life

WHAT THIS BLOG IS ABOUT

research, writing, art, illustrations and cartoons about abuse, bullying and narcissistic disorders in terms of what it means for the victim and perpetrators

I also explore alcoholism as it relates to anger management issues

I am a mandated reporter in the state of NY. This means I report signs of bullying and domestic abuse to authorities

I am a former art teacher. My goal is to get an MSW and to be an advocate for survivors of child abuse, spousal abuse, incest, scapegoating and school bullying.

advocate of CoDA, ACOA and Alanon

my purpose is to help others

Blog table of contents below, but I suggest reading the featured blog post first below to understand what abuse is and who it is perpetrated by

Disclaimer: do not use these posts to treat any condition; please see a professional therapist or psychologist.

SCAPEGOATING IS MOB BULLYING:

"The purpose of the scapegoat is to pass responsibility onto someone else. Usually this person is unsuspecting at first and agrees because they are trying to get along with others. This technique of passing the buck is very common with narcissists, sociopaths, and addicts. Narcissists can't allow their ego to be tarnished by an error. Sociopaths do it for the sport of it."

~ Christine Hammond, Licensed Therapist

ARTICLES I RECOMMEND:

1 Toxic Families who Scapegoat

2 The Role of the Family Scapegoat in Dysfunctional Families

3 The Narcissistic Conspiracy: Scapegoating, Smear Campaigns and Black Sheep - How Narcissistic Groups Bully Their Chosen Victims

What is New?

cures and musings for the holidays when you have abusers in your life

-- Black Sheep at Christmas? Making Christmas Better ...

-- Iced Out of a Holiday Event? One Good Holiday Cure When it Comes to Your Narcissistic Mother

-- How to Gray Rock Narcissistic Family Members at Thanksgiving

-- When all we want for Christmas is an apology from a narcissist (maybe)

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